Introduction:
Haven’t we
wasted enough time searching for the things in our heart that does not
line up with God’s will; His promises to us? I don’t know about you but I
know I have wasted too much time looking for things I want and I am
tired of it!!!
As I was praying one morning, this is what I heard in my spirit:
“NO MORE SEARCHING, NO MORE DRAMA, and NO MORE TRAUMA!” God had told me “NO MORE DRAMA” in 2006 before He delivered me from the LAST abusive marriage.
I am
sharing this message with you because I feel God wants me to! I know I
am not the only one who went through years and years and years of abuse
(any kind) and had residual effects in my soul (mind, will, and
emotions)! Abuse or trauma of ANY kind will leave you emotionally unbalanced! People who have NEVER EVER
been abused, I mean to the point of just wanting to die rather than
stay with the abuser another day and cannot get away, have no clue as to
what it is like to be abused!! That is why they cannot understand what
an abused person goes through or why the person just don’t leave; it is NOT that simple – the person who are being abused is blinded by the bondage of the abuse and the ONLY
way out is for God to open their eyes to His truth!! The people who are
being abused need to cry out to Jesus so He can deliver them!!!
Jesus is the ONLY One
who can deliver a person out of the bondage of domestic violence
because the abuser has the person being abused so emotionally captive
that he or she is in bondage in his or her mind which is housed in the
soul; this mean the person’s soul who is being abused is enslaved to
their abuser!! Another reason I can say Jesus is the ONLY One
who can deliver a person out of the bondage of domestic violence is
because I am living proof!! God delivered me and released my soul from
the bondage of the person who was abusing and traumatizing me and He can
do the same thing for you if you believe Him – look to Jesus and He
will bring you out of whatever bondage you are in!!!
God's Prayer For You!
I am going to
stop here and pray a prayer for you that God wants me to pray; I am
asking God to BREAK EVERY CHAIN of bondage in your life - “Break Every Chain” – Tasha Cobb: “I
pray that God will get ahold of the person who is abusing you and set
them free by the Power of Jesus’ Blood and that he or she will find
rest, healing, deliverance, salvation, and whatever else they need to STOP terrorizing you in the Name of Jesus, the Name that is above EVERY other name!
Father, I also pray for EVERY person who is reading this message and is suffering from ANY KIND of trauma as a result of ANY KIND of abuse, that You would RELEASE them from the bondage of their abuser. Father, destroy EVERY
stronghold in the soul of the person who is being abused; the
stronghold that is holding her or him captive in their mind (soul) to
the person who is abusing him/her! Father, free this person in his/her
emotions from EVERY crippling effect that the abuser has caused
or will cause them in the Name of Jesus! Father, You said in Your Word
that You have already provided this person a way of escape, therefore
show him/her, his/her way of escape and send him/her help to escape the
bondage of abuse; it does not matter what kind of abuse he/she is
suffering or has suffered!
Father, I
thank You for freeing Your people today; Your wounded, heartbroken
people who have lost hope! But God I know You as a Deliver, I know You
as a Restorer, I know You as a Healer of broken hearts, I know You as
the One who delivered me out of seven abusive marriages – six husbands
abused me and I abused one by neglecting him as I was neglected from
birth and by the six husbands – this happened because I was NOT
healed or delivered from the previous abuses before I got involved in
another relationship! The lack of deliverance caused me to become
bitter, angry, and not know how to receive love! Father, I thank You for
bringing me out of my abusive marriages and forgiving me – I forgive
myself and my ex-husband whom I neglected has forgiven me!
Father, I stand in the gap today for EVERY abusive marriage and EVERY
abusive relationship (in whatever capacity); I am asking in the Name of
Your Son Jesus because I know it is Your will to set these victims of
abuse free – Your people God!! Therefore, I am asking You Father to
deliver the victims of abuse out of EVERY form of abuse known and
unknown to man, like You did for me! I am asking that You heal the
victims of abuse like You healed me from the bondage of abuse and heal
their souls so they will NEVER enter into another abusive relationship of any kind – like You did for me Father!
I am asking Father, that You restore unto the victims of abuse EVERYTHING that they have lost while they were in the abusive relationship, marriage, or any other type of abusive union! Father, restore EVERYTHING
that the worm, cankerworm, palmerworm, locust, and the caterpillar has
eaten up that belongs to them! I am asking Father, that You strengthen
and establish EVERY person who WERE in ANY forms of abusive relationship, marriage, or union that involved abuse, in Jesus’ Name (I
say “were” because after this day, you will rise up in God’s strength
and abilities and NEVER be victims of domestic violence [or any other
type of abuse] as long as you live)!
Father, open the victim’s eyes so they can believe that Jesus has already set them free, that He died so they could live the abundant life in You! Open their hearts Father and let them know that the ONLY way for them to obtain their freedom is through Jesus Your Son – Jesus is their Savior and He is the ONLY
Way, the Truth, and the Life – no one comes to You Father but through
Jesus! Father, You love the ones who are being abused and the abuser
very much and You want to see both set free!!
Father, I thank You for breaking and destroying EVERY
soul tie between the person who is being abused and the abuser, in the
Name of Jesus! Father, heal their heart and deliver the people who are
being abused from EVERY form of fear, intimidation, and any other
demonic force associated with the abuse! Father, I am asking You to
replace fear with Your faith and hate with Your love in Jesus’ Name!
Father, I am also asking that You deliver the children that are involved in ALL
abusive situations; God heal the children’s soul (mind, will, and
emotions) and please don’t allow them to be affected by the abuse when
they grow up – let them be normal according to Your definition when they
grow up! I also ask that You deliver, heal, restore, strengthen, and
establish EVERY child who are or were affected by ANY kind of abuse, in Jesus’s Name!
Father, You
sent me to teach the person who is being abused or were abused how to
recover so I ask You to get the glory out of my life as well as their
life! I pray this prayer in the Name of Jesus, knowing Father You will
deliver, heal, restore, strengthen and establish Your women and men who
are being abused in ANY way, Amen!!”
Closing Remarks:
WOW!
What a powerful prayer, the Holy Spirit prayed!! I see now, that is why
God wanted me to start writing; I did not know He was going to use me
to pray over you all and for the person who are abusing you! God loves
you and the abuser (as I said before) – He rains on the just as well as
the unjust – God loves the sinner but not the sin – our ways and
thoughts are not like God’s!
In my
closing, two things, first, I want to let you know before you can
recover, you must forgive the person who is abusing you or who has
abused you; there is no ifs, ands, or buts!! I know, I know, I know,
forgiving the person who abuses you is hard, especially having to
forgive the person while they are still around you! God has delivered
you out of that abusive situation; just follow His leading – He is there
for you and with you so don't give up hope! God is going to show you
your escape route soon and very soon – just trust Him! However, in the
meantime, you can prepare yourself by forgiving the abuser – get a
jumpstart on your recovery process!
This brings
me to the second thing I wanted to tell you in my closing; to help you
with getting starting with your recovery process, I am including some
specific prayers which covers specific areas that most people (myself
included) to be delivered from once God brings them out of abusive
relationships! What you will do is pray asking God to set you free from Unforgiveness, Rejection, Fear, Soul Ties, Traumas, False Intimacy – Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places, and so you can be set free from any ungodly emotions that were imbedded in your emotions before you were born, you will pray the Discovery Prayer!
God can do anything but fail – God is an Awesome, Amazing, Wonderful, Loving God who wants YOU
healed and walking in total healing and health – God wants you to walk
in wholeness!! God took me all the way back to when I was in my mother’s
womb and revealed to me that I was not wanted and that messed me up
emotionally but God healed my emotions and He is teaching me that He loves me and that He is MORE THAN ENOUGH for me!!
When I was in the last abusive marriage, I had no hope, no future but God already had prepared
my hope and my future for me and I thank Him a million, trillion,
zillion times for bringing me up out of that abuse; the last guy I was
married to was worse than ALL the six husbands before him put
together!! But God brought me out alive; He later told me that the devil
sent that guy into my life to totally destroy me but God did not allow
that to happen!!!
God took
care of me while I was in the abuse and He will and is taking care of
you and He is preparing a way for your escape!!
I am going to put the
prayers in the order I believe God would have you to pray them; don’t be
afraid, God is there with you – if possible, pray them when you are
alone so God can speak to you and He will speak!! I know I gave my life
back to God while I was in the last abusive marriage and I spent as much
time as I could studying the Bible, watching Christian television, and
praying – I wanted to keep my mind on God!! The guy did not work so he
was home but I did not care, I needed God to do something for me so I
spent my time locked up in my extra bedroom seeking God!! And I know God
will speak to you if you listen because He spoke to me and I was in a
backslidden state so I was not serving Him at the time! God loves us so
much that He will come and get us to save our soul from destruction and
give us a chance to find our way of escape through His Son Jesus – this
is YOUR way of escape!!!
These prayers I mentioned above are courtesy of Dr. Art Mathias, Wellsprings Ministry Alaska, from his book, “Biblical Foundations of Freedom Destroying Satan’s Lies With God’s Truth!” The
prayers in this manual will help with your deliverance, healing, and
restoration process. Dr. Mathias’ organization also does counseling over
the phone – call them and tell them I referred you!! I thank Dr.
Mathias and his Staff for their support to me and my organizations-I am
using these prayers with his permission!! I pray that God will
continually bless him, his family, his staff and their families, and his
ministry, in Jesus’ Name! Here is his ministry contact information - no
part of the prayers can be copied or reproduced in any way without
first contacting Dr. Mathias; you must have his permission to use any of
his material from this and any other teaching where I use his material:
Dr. Art Mathias
Wellspring Ministries of Alaska
2511 Sentry Drive
Anchorage, Alaska 99507
Telephone: 907.563.9033
E-mail: akwellspr@aol.com
Web Site: www.akwellspring.com
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May God continually bless you and your family,
Dr. Dorothy E. Hooks
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